mahakavi:

there’s just something so violent and cruel about the way even normal “vanilla” sex is talked about, i don’t understand it

why always the association of sex with pain. pain with pleasure. idk if this is me being prudish or sex-repulsed or whatever. i just want to know why the language surrounding sex and intimacy and relationships is so violent. so heartless.


threedaffodils:

I don’t respect your kinks fight me

(via survivorsofkinkunite)


radfemale:

50 shades of kinksters caring more about BDSM’s image over the fact it continues to glorify and sexualise abuse

(via survivorsofkinkunite)


princess—bilight-sparkle:

Queer women and nonbinary people don’t exist for the sake of your argument about why BDSM is good.


brattynvbadlookin replied to your post: By you shaming me for enjoying my sexuality as I want it, you have raped me. Not with a penis but with your need to rob me of the right to choose how I wish to express my sexual needs. Your brand of feminism is misogyny rebranded.

"If that considered rape I will rape these asswipes all goddam day. F this. Lmao"

No, shut the fuck up and get away from my blog. This type of language is WHY this anon was so disgusting, it is trivializing. It takes light the true meaning of what rape is, and what you just said is just as abhorrent as the original ask. Rape is not ever to ever ever ever be joked about.


allisonscrown:

"where’s my christian grey????” hopefully locked up in prison

(via frankieztein)


princessbuggie:

really

princessbuggie:

really

(via radfemale)


Why do I even have a blog? Why don’t I just take the time to individually answer every wank stain who asks me the exact same question about “why do u care about what two ppl do in a bedroom you mean bully!!” I mean, why would you bother reading my blog first, that isn’t why it is here or anything???


Q
Is your feminism inclusive of the disability intersection?
A

I literally am disabled and if it is you who keeps anoning me about making my blog more accessible and asking if I support disabled people: stop. I suffer from extremely severe depression and anxiety among other things and making a master post/list/FAQ etc etc is going to take way more energy than I can muster AS A DISABLED PERSON right at this moment. The reason I disappear from posting often is due to my illnesses and the sheer magnitude of messages and traffic this blog gets. It is often overwhelming and frustrating and making an FAQ is going to be the least of my worries for a while.


Q
I just want to know what's so bad about kinks. Please enlighten me. Note: I'm not being sarcastic or ignorant. I just really want to know.
A

Literally… Read my god damn blog??????????????????