Thank you for sharing, but ew.
So some people at school today were like, “Ugh porn is gross and weird and SO wrong and anyone who watches it is sick.” (Well I’m exaggerating a little but that was basically what they were saying) So my friend Anne called upon me to make this powerpoint advocating against kink-shame, slut-shaming, gender roles, and aaallll the other things that are wrong with our society.
P.S. Sorry I stole some things from tumblr and forgot to get sources please no one murder me thank you
I feel sorry for your teacher and bitter that you have such a wonderful url
- pegging isn’t queer or radical k bye
Nope, but I think it’s hot.
We need more discussion about the framing and portrayal of kinks, especially from an intersectional perspective, but the “k bye” in the original post smells of kink shaming to me.
this is glorious
Wish I could defend a fellow kinkster to a blog that is essentially bullying her for compairing telling kinksters not to act kinky to asking gay people not to act gay, but too scared ‘cause the blog users are pretty much shaming that person for not being gay and actually being total douche bags…
You kids today and your crappy work ethic.
okay guys looks like i fucked up! i’m sorry about that.
when i added that on that was completely from my own perspective - i’m not comfortable for my dom/sub dynamic to be nonsexual! but i shouldn’t have applied that as a catchall knowing how diverse people’s sexual and non-sexual relationships with each other are.
sorry that i made you guys feel uncomfortable or that i invalidated your relationships! i just didn’t think about it that way. i’m gonna tweak the answer to that ask!
EDIT: tho i’m gonna be completely real here i am pretty ticked at you saying “fake same as gay couples,” darkstalkergirl. i’m like …. not 100% sure that i understand what you were trying to imply with that? but i’m like 99% sure that i don’t like it.
Sexgenderbody continues to have respectful conversation about shoving very large objects in women’s asses.
(NSFW, in case you didn’t figure that out before)
Okay, to be fair, I’m usually a little grossed out when straight men start talking about their attractions, so you got me there.
Can I just say something? I prefer fat girls, and all that, and it’s fine, cool, whatever. You know what though? Skinny people don’t give a shit that I prefer fat girls. They don’t care, at least not enough to say anything to my face about it (of course I probably scare the shit out of ‘em too). You know who I do get a lot of shit from? You know who doesn’t approve of my preference?
The size acceptance community.
That’s right. The very community I ought to feel comfortable in, makes me feel ashamed and uncomfortable. Because I run a porn blog and I objectify women (sarcasm). If that isn’t the dumbest bunch of shit I’ve ever heard in my life. I like looking at fat girls, who are naked, and in various states off arousal. Apparently this makes me a bad person. Because I like looking at naked fat girls, I’m some kind of pervert to be despised and shamed of. And when I vent and talk about how I feel, I’m treated like an even bigger piece of shit. I’ve actually lost followers over this (to them: HAVE A NICE LIFE!)
I’m beginning to find that people outside of this little “bubble” we have created for ourselves to keep us safe isn’t as accommodating that we all like to think it is. It’s bullshit to the highest degree and if you believe that all is fair in size acceptance, I’ve got some news for you.
It doesn’t matter if it’s a fetish or a preference because people are going to believe what they want to believe. There’s nothing that can be expressed to sway them one way or the other. Once that’s it, that’s fucking it. So in that respect, there are really two schools of thought in the size acceptance community that I’ve seen, The Nudes and The Prudes.
I’ve spent most of my adult life (25 years, give or take) around the adult industry end of the movement. I’ve seen BBW go from an obscure search term to a keyword in porn. I’ve dealt with a lot of people, Some cool, some not. Some of the biggest assholes have been right here on tumblr.
…..[snipped because boring]……
I dig fat chicks, You can either:
- Like it
- Not like it
- Or hidden option C: Not give a shit.
I’m not asking anyone to be my friend, I’m just putting it out there that maybe Size Acceptance isn’t all that its cracked up to be, and that maybe it just doesn’t matter if you have a preference or a fetish because you have already been judged.
I would like to choose Option D: Be completely grossed out by assholes like this and judge them on the internet.